Archive for November 2009

Author and Longtime GLBT Activist Perry Brass on SistersTalk Radio – Nov 05,2009

Perry Brass is the author of the new book The Manly Art of Seduction:How to Meet, Talk To, and Become Intimate With Anyone.

Brass is an internationally recognized voice on gender subjects, gay relationships, and the history and literature of the movement towards GLBT equality.
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ENDA Hearing November 5 – Call or Email Your Senators and Reps TODAY

Update: I’ll be liveblogging the ENDA hearing tomorrow over at iQreport.

After last night’s defeat in Maine, I’m sure many in the LGBT community are angry and heartbroken. But don’t let last night’s upset keep you from moving forward in the battle for full equality in all 50 states for all people.

On Thursday, November 5, a Senate Committee will hold a hearing on the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (S. 1584). Key witnesses will testify about how vital this legislation is for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) workers and their families.

Get involved by contacting your Senators and Representatives. Calls and emails do make a difference, so do one of the following to help get ENDA passed:


Call the U.S. Capitol switchboard at (202) 224-3121.
Give your zip code and ask to be connected to your Senators, and then your Representative. Once you’re connected, please tell them the following:

My name is _____ and I am a proud resident of (your city, state). I am calling in support of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (H.R. 3017/S. 1584), to protect lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people from job discrimination. Please take action to pass ENDA now. I can be reached at _______ (give your phone number). Thank you.

If you prefer to send an email, complete the form email here.

American Idol Winner Jordin Sparks to Host America’s Biggest Sleepover

She’s not queer, but I love Jordin – even though I never watched a single episode of American Idol.

America’s Biggest Sleepover is an event created to bring together teen girls from across the country. The event is hosted by American Idol winner Jordin Sparks. The nationwide online event will be hosted on November 7 on beinggirl.com – a Tampax and Always affiliated site.

America’s Biggest Sleepover will feature an exclusive performance from Jordin Sparks, a Q&A with Jordin from beinggirl.com members and sleepover party tips including recipes, fun games and hairstyles.

For every girl who signs up to participate on beinggirl.com, Always will donate $1 (up to $25,000 total) to the Protecting Futures program, which helps girls in developing regions stay in school.

Transgender Man Supported in Custody Case

A New York mother said she is fighting for custody of her son with her former partner, a woman who lives as a man, because of a judge’s questionable ruling.

The New York Daily News said Monday the woman and her former partner, identified only by the false names Melanie and Sam, respectively, are mired in a legal custody battle following an October ruling by Brooklyn Justice Esther Morgenstern.

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Response Roundup: Maine Voters Reject Pro Gay Marriage Law

Mainers’ 53-47 vote to reject gay marriage does more than simply slap down a law that just six months ago had made Maine America’s second state to permit same-sex couples to wed. With voters thronging to the polls, the closely watched — and ultimately not very close — vote extended the winning streak of gay marriage opponents nationwide, who have now prevailed in more than 30 straight state elections over whether to allow gays to marry. Just like Californians one year ago, Maine voters insisted on having their own say on an issue that simply will not go away.

Responses:

AP:    Cecelia Burnett and Ann Swanson had already set their wedding date. When they joined about 1,000 other gay marriage supporters for an election night party in a Holiday Inn ballroom, they hoped to celebrate the vote that would make it possible.  Instead, they went home at midnight, dejected and near tears after a failed bid to make Maine the first state to approve same-sex marriage at the ballot box.

Gay Patriot: My biggest fear about the Maine vote is that the President will use it as an excuse not to move forward on issues of concern to the gay community, particularly repeal of Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell.

JaySays: New York Times has called the victory for the Yes On 1 Campaign overturning the rights of taxpaying U.S. citizens.

WTOV:  The stars seemed aligned for supporters of gay marriage. They had Maine’s governor, legislative leaders and major newspapers on their side, plus a huge edge in campaign funding. So losing a landmark referendum was a devastating blow, for activists in Maine and nationwide.

Patchwork Nation: After a string of electoral defeats, supporters of gay-marriage rights thought they might have a winner in Maine. The New England state has an ingrained strain of stay-out-of-my-business libertarianism. But 53 percent of voters (according to the tally early Wednesday morning) did not support the law.

Creative Loafing:  It was a mixed bag for gay voters last night. The vote to preserve marriage equality came up short in Maine, but great strides were made in local elections — including St. Petersburg’s City Council race.

Illinois Teacher Suspended After Assignment Involving Homosexuality

Students and former students rallied outside Monday night’s disciplinary hearing at the Southwest School District in Piasa, IL. They were there to support veteran teacher Dan Delong. Delong was suspended after giving a 10th grade honors English class an assignment involving a science magazine article about homosexual behavior among hundreds of animal species. Some parents complained.

The school board suspended the teacher and even called in state child welfare authorities to determine whether the assignment might amount to child abuse.

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Daily Tweet Digest

What I Posted on Twitter Yesterday:

  • 13:51 Pleased to see #VoteNoOn1 is a trending subject right now. Let’s hope it helps us win this one. #
  • 16:54 CNN Reports: This jerk (bit.ly/DxzfK) just resigned. Bye bye, racist Louisiana Justice of the Peace. #
  • 17:40 @nueva_voz This lesbian LOVES talking about straight men. I love them. Didn’t you know that? Every lesbian does. *rollin eyes* #
  • 17:46 Breaktime over. I have more people to piss off. I haven’t met my quota for the day. There’s work to do! #
  • 21:10 AP: Maine vote on same-sex marriage law is close bit.ly/8vM96 #VoteNoOn1 #
  • 21:31 Waiting to do phone interview with Jeremy DeRos from the #VoteNoOn1 Headquarters. #
  • 21:34 Cubs Group Has First Prominent Gay Owner; Still, Not Entirely Pro-Gay – bit.ly/2aefAA #
  • 21:36 Kalamazoo residents decide to keep city’s ordinance protecting LGBT people – bit.ly/3r0n0z #
  • 21:41 Steve Kornell. 1st openly gay Councilman in St Pete, FL! Send Congrats! www.stevekornell.com/ (via @jaysays) #
  • 21:42 NYT reports 51.2% NO, 48.8% YES on Marriage Referendum. Medicinal Marijuana is leading with 62.4% YES (via @jaysays) #
  • 21:43 Wonder how many stoners will move to Maine . . . #
  • 21:45 These state-by-state fights are bullshit. – ‘Gay Marriage in Oregon could go on Ballot in 2012′ bit.ly/aXVvG #
  • 21:47 AP: Gay-marriage vote too close to call in Maine – bit.ly/ya5eM #
  • 21:48 In my neck of the woods: WI State Supreme Court hears arguments on gay marriage amendment – bit.ly/3Ar8BI #
  • 21:49 @GrrrlRomeo Says the manual on civil rights movements? #
  • 21:51 @jaysays I would #marryyou, but gays can’t marry each other in my state or yours. Ha! #
  • 21:52 @joseayerve Hey there, handsome. Hope all is well with you. Still playing your "Are Ya Gonna Kiss or Wave Goodbye’ on the show. #
  • 21:55 Andy & Andy: Gay couple gets engaged during DC’s same-sex marriage hearing – bit.ly/1REza2 #
  • 21:56 @GrrrlRomeo ROFLMAO! Thank gawd I didn’t miss my Poli Sci classes in college or that would’ve been news to me. #
  • 21:57 The Maine fight is nerve-wreckin’. Makes me wanna drink. #
  • 22:07 Saying a quick prayer for our LGBT family in NJ. Sorry about that new anti-gay GOP governor you just got tonight. #
  • 22:15 Love that block feature. Now if Twitter can add a "slap a bitch" feature, I’d be in heaven. #
  • 22:16 @blogdiva You know she says what she thinks the gays wanna hear ‘cuz the GOP wants us on their team in 2012. #
  • 22:20 Re: Maine – RT @adamjbink: There is a strong potential for a recount. bit.ly/4nDfoc #marryme (via @jaysays) #
  • 22:21 @jaysays, @blogdiva wants to know what’s up with Houston’s mayoral race. Any idea? #
  • 22:23 @AaronBBrown Near future? You mean like, oh, the 200+ years it took for Blacks to get "equality?" #
  • 22:33 I am SO lost with all these local gay rights battles going on. PLUS, I should be working. But I’m obsessing over all this. #
  • 22:37 So what happens if the Maine vote ends up tied? A new vote? How’s that work in Maine? #
  • 22:43 @GoogieBaba I have a group of news sources I keep refreshing too! Waiting. Waiting. Waiting. #
  • 22:44 @Jeff_Dodd We can hope, right? Gooooo Portland! #
  • 22:46 @dolphyngyrl Sweetie, I’m all confused tonight. You’ll have to clarify your last tweet to me. #
  • 22:47 @dolphyngyrl Ooooh, I was trying to paraphrase and RT a really long update and made a huge mess with it. I’m not even drinking. #
  • 22:48 Feeling @blogdiva’s head. Do you have a fever? Hysteria? #
  • 22:54 RT @lgbtlife: Live-blogging the marriage vote in Maine from Portland #lgbt bit.ly/2cTuL #
  • 22:56 @GayRainArmy I was informed that it should be obvious to us idiots that marriage rights SHOULD be a state-by-state fight. #
  • 23:02 @GayRainArmy Agreed. And yes, I did say exactly that. State-by-state begging for crumbs. That’s what we’re doing. #
  • 23:04 RT @EqualityAmerica Maine Update: 75% precincts reporting: No 48.01% Yes 51.99% #LGBT #GAY #
  • 23:08 @blogdiva $20B? As in BILLION? I might suck up to teabaggers for that kinda money, too. #
  • 23:09 Say it ain’t so. RT: @jaysays 52.1% Yes, 47.9% No with 75% reporting. #MarryME #
  • 23:12 @blogdiva Oh, well you didn’t say all of that! I changed my mind. I found my brain. #
  • 23:12 RT @HomoPolitico: Simone Bell makes runoff in District 58; could be first black lesbian in Ga. legislature: bit.ly/4afRLw #
  • 23:31 Heading to bed. I can’t take this anymore. @JaySays and @Blogdiva, hold down the fort. Good night everyone. #

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